Here you will find great Tips to the organization a free wedding ceremony & for Looking for a wedding speaker by Madeleine von SCHÖNLIEBE, the wedding speaker from Munich. For many people, a wedding is one of the most beautiful days in life and this day should be celebrated appropriately.
I am Madeleine from SCHÖNELIEBE wedding speeches and would like to see you in the world of free wedding ceremony take along. Let’s start!
What are the options for a wedding?
As mentioned at the beginning, there are different wedding models. I’ll start with the registry office. There are some registry offices that hold a marriage longer than “Only 15 minutes“And make this time a little more personal – the emphasis is on a few. Unfortunately, this is not the case with all registry offices.
Then there is the church. The church wedding offers the opportunity to get married in a sumptuous ambience with God’s blessing – a wonderful opportunity if the bride and groom have the Shares values of the church and if you no same-sex marriage want to lead.
Free wedding ceremony
Last but not least, there is the free wedding ceremony that it offers all freedoms – really all liberties. Anyone who wants to say “YES” can say “YES”, regardless of religion, gender or whatever else there is. Only one thing should be mentioned for the sake of form: whoever marries freely is not automatically married by virtue of the law !! For this a civil wedding is necessary in advance.
More and more couples are choosing one these days free wedding ceremony… just why? As already written: the free wedding ceremony offers the great opportunity to organize the day how and where the couple wants it – whether boho, vintage, royal or rather simple.
Many couples have never or seldom been to free weddings and they often do not know how a free wedding can take place. For all of them I would therefore like to start from the beginning: how and where do you actually find the right wedding speaker & when do the bride and groom and speaker fit together?
How do I find the right wedding speaker?
Where can I find a wedding speaker?
I suggest that you start your search in good time – I usually get it myself 1 year in advance the requests of newlyweds. The search can take place in several ways:
- On the one hand, it’s worth it Search engine on the internet – here you can get one very well find a local wedding speaker.
- But also the relevant ones Social media channels or asking in Circle of acquaintances are very suitable for searching.
- Often they also have Wedding locations already over Recommendation lists – it is worthwhile to just ask here.
Likes to look for you 2-3 wedding speakers that fit into your budget and make an appointment to get to know each other.
The meeting with the wedding speaker
I offer my introductory talks for free in my Munich office – please have a look at the Performance overviewwhether the first meeting with the wedding speakers found is free of charge. In the first appointment everyone introduces themselves – not just the wedding speaker, but you too. In addition, you express your own Wishes and expectations. It is important that you have a good gut feeling at the speaker. You share many events in your life and there you play to trust a very important role.
Does the freelance speaker suit us?
I don’t just see myself as a listener and as the person writing a speech – I am one too Consultant, who supports her couples with recommendations for everything related to free weddings. What is important to you?
A little hint: After getting to know each other (maybe in the evening) close your eyes and imagine that this person is standing in front of you on the day of the free wedding and Tell your story… I am sure that you will make the right decision. But the wedding speaker should also have a good feeling – at least that’s my opinion. Because only when I have a good feeling can I fully engage with the couple.
The contract with the wedding speaker
If it has sparked, then the contractual follows. Since a wedding speaker gets a lot of inquiries, he will give you one Deadline set by when you should accept or reject at the latest. During this time the appointment is usually for you reserved (Attention: please ask the wedding speaker whether a reservation will be made).
Most wedding speakers work with contracts that they give to the bride and groom signature send. Under the contract is a Reservation fee common. This can vary and is usually between 20% and 50% of the order price. In the introductory meeting you are welcome to ask how much the down payment is and when it is due. So you can plan your budget accordingly.
The wedding interview
How is this continuing? I agree myself 3-5 months before the free wedding ceremony an appointment for Wedding interview. The further process depends on the service portfolio of the wedding speaker. In the wedding interview I talk about the milestones in the life of the bride and groom. We’ll also discuss the Procedure of the free wedding ceremonyin detail – what happens when? And I give tips on how the free wedding ceremony can be organized.
It is very important to me that we all Wishes of the bride and groom let in: be it the participation of the Groomsmen, Plan “good wishes” or the integration of the Marriage vows. Every couple, every story is very different and so every wedding is different.
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The process of a free wedding ceremony
How long does a free ceremony last?
In fact, what is almost always the same is the duration of a free ceremony. I recommend to my couples that they be between 40 and 45 minutes should plan for the wedding ceremony. This is a good time frame to give the couple enough attention – but it’s also a good time frame, especially in my opinion this time frame is perfect for toddlers and the older guests.
What music for free wedding?
The music is the icing on the cake of a free wedding ceremony. I have to admit that I do Live music find the most beautiful & romantic. There is nothing like a beautiful one voice or one Guitar or piano accompaniment. Usually the bride and groom can go with you 3 to 4 pieces of music calculate. The number of wedding songs depends on the design of the ceremony.
The decoration for the free wedding ceremony
If Flowers, soap bubbles, confetti cannons, balloons… what I particularly like about a free wedding are the decoration and the possibility to move out. Oh, there are a lot of nice details that you can plan for. As with everything in life, it is important in my opinion: not too much, not too little. The mix does it.
The magic of free marriage?
What is the magic of a free wedding? Well, everyone has to determine that for themselves. For me as a married woman (who herself said “YES” to her husband in a free wedding) and as a free wedding speaker, I can say: the magic of a free wedding is this love and connected with it the bride and groom. There is something like that in every person, in every couple a lot of beautiful things – you just have to be able to do this small details to recognize and them to be named as a speaker during the wedding ceremony. And if that’s the case, then it’s going to be really good!
More about the wedding speaker Madeleine from SCHÖNELIEBE
Should you want to know more about me, Madeleine von SCHÖNELIEBE wedding speeches, please have a look at my website www.schöneliebe.de or visit www.instagram.com/schoeneliebe_traurednerin. I look forward to you all.
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